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Nicki

Apologies for the lengthy post.

In April 2014 I commenced work as a HR & HS Manager for a family run business which now employees 280 staff across 5 sites in the North West.  I was employed as a standalone as the person before me literally dipped in and out for 2-3 days a week covering both roles and they wanted someone full time as they were, and are continuing to, acquire further businesses.  Before I joined HR was more of an after thought and seen as not important, this has changed dramatically since I began but I have put a lot of work in to ensure they see not only the value of HR but also me and I am now part of the Senior Leadership Team with 3 others.

As you can imagine my role is very varied and I love my role for this reason but lately the workload is becoming more and more unmanageable and I dread coming in to work.  I have spoken to my Manager (who is one of the MDs that owns the business) to see if there is the possibility of getting me some help in the form of an Admin.  He has confirmed he would be happy to do this on a temporary basis but sees no need for a permanent solution.  

I am completely at a loss now.  I am struggling, the admin side of my role is very heavy particularly as we have a lot of new starters and leavers and there is a lot of recruitment to do (mainly Milk Roundspersons its not a job for everyone given the hours and weather conditions).  I am concerned that come April when Contracts have to be issued on day one that I will start to fall flat on my face and I have no idea how I am going to cope, I sometimes don't even know about starters until they are not paid the following week!  Appreciate this is getting the managers to keep me informed but the admin that comes with a new starter or leaver is huge 

I am now covering HR, H&S - which includes a manufacturing site, and being asked to undertake long term strategic projects and the stress is now affecting me quite badly, particularly in my home life.  I feel unable to declare this as one of the MD's is aware I have a mental health problem and whilst I have not had an episode in over 6 years - way before I started work here - they are not very accommodating or sensitive to those employees who do go off or find themselves needing time to self heal.  Before Christmas I contemplated finding another role but I really like the business and the people here and given my mental health don't really feel strong enough to find another role.

Does anyone have any experience of asking for extra assistance?  Should I gamble and tell them about my mental health?  As an aside I was diagnosed 16 years ago and have for the most part kept it under control with drugs and a wonderful GP who continues to support me.

  • in reply to Nicki
    The reason I asked about your working relationships with other heads of support departments (which, looking back, I see I did not explain) was because I wondered whether there could be a joint paper covering the infrastructure that will be needed to support the business during and after its expansion. IMO it is not unusual for Finance to get as many people as they say they need and super-duper software. If you can get the FD on board, you are usually in a much better position to convince the rest of the board, although it sounds as if your FD's credibility has been dented.

    If you are doing payroll as well as H&S on top of HR, you have a very busy job. Could you make a case for hiving off both of those? Getting your payroll done externally doesn't have to cost too much. On the H&S front, are you Nebosh qualified? Do you have the skills, experience and knowledge to be the organisation's H&S competent person? As it is a legal requirement to have a H&S competent person (see the HSE website for more on this) if you haven't got one you ought to be able to convince the board that they have no choice but to recruit one or engage a consultant to provide the expertise.
  • in reply to Elizabeth Divver
    Like Elizabeth I was also thinking about the H&S requirements of your role - which frankly must be a full time role without any HR aspects if you're running 5 sites including manufacturing. Would an approach be to deal with this on a risk management basis - set out for your MD what the risks are if you get the health and safety wrong (ie he goes to prison) because the service you're trying to offer is stretched too thin.

    While I appreciate the context of your mental health (and the way that your organisation is damaging it), in fact it's almost a red herring here. The scale of the job is just too big for one person, and it needs proper resourcing if it is going to be done well and safely.

    Good luck - and I'm sorry you're having to argue for what should be recognised as a basic requirement.
  • Hi Nicki, your more than welcome, I'm very open with my mental health, its not something I can hide easily and I've worked with my team for such a long time, they have seen me prior to being diagnosed and meds, all through the hurricanes and storms, hiding who I am just didnt suite me, I'm a crazy person with extreme highs but I'm at my best when I'm like that, I relate a lot to mental health in the workplace, my dad has dementia and parkinsons too so for me I'm always checking in on employees to make sure they are ok, my door is always open so if ever you need a pick me up just give me a shout. You know in your heart what's best for you and you totally got this!! Take care