When do you decide that it's better to give up chasing a goal/dream that doesn't seem to be materialising?

I'm really struggling lately, career wise.

Over the years I've invested in myself and my own CPD. I graduated with a BA Honours in Business Studies, and really enjoyed the HR Module, which is why I chose to go down the HR Route. After finishing university I found myself unemployed for 8 months. I originally came from a retail management background. I was lucky enough to secure a part time reception job, my aim was to take on this role purely to fund my Level 3 CIPD qualification which I successfully completed last year. Alongside working this part time job, and studying, I secured a HR voluntary placement in a manufacturing company before I then successfully secured a full time Clerical post in a HR team for a local authority. I have been employed here now for almost 2 years, and I have come to a standstill in regards to learning and developing. My managers are fully aware of how I am currently feeling. I have supported HR business partners on he odd occasion through disciplinaries etc as a note taker, but overall I'm feeling really stuck. I cannot seem to secure a HR role due to lack of experience. I have requested to shadow and get involved with others at work, but unfortunately my requests to do so have been unsuccessful. I am contemplating progressing onto the level 5 CIPD course in hope that his may help my current situation, and hopefully make me look more attractive to employers, however, I worry that the problem will still be the same (lack of experience).

I am stuck in a vicious circle and my question is, are there any other people who feel/felt the same?

And how did you get out of the situation before feeling like it's time to give up and look at other options ?

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  • Hi Kim,

    I'm in a similar position to you - a little bit stuck! Therefore, I've opted to study towards my L5 CIPD qualification which commences this September. I graduated with a BA (hons) in Business Information Systems and an MSc in Management. I too enjoyed the HR modules and wanted to further develop on this.

    I've been a HR assistant with my current company for 6 years as well as a weekend receptionist at a car dealership for 6 years. I can see and understand that both companies have very different cultures, which I feel I can apply to the L5 qualification. My problem is, I lack the confidence to push myself (jobs etc), but in order to progress, I need to have a little faith in myself hence applying for the L5. Although I'm being pushed to do my L7, I feel that the L5 would ease me gently back in to studying (as it's been 8 years since I did my MSc).

    So, my advice to you is, perhaps study towards the L5 if you want more opportunities. If you have a degree already then you'll be used to assignment writing. The rest will just fall in to place providing you believe in yourself! :) Good luck.
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  • Hi Kim,

    I'm in a similar position to you - a little bit stuck! Therefore, I've opted to study towards my L5 CIPD qualification which commences this September. I graduated with a BA (hons) in Business Information Systems and an MSc in Management. I too enjoyed the HR modules and wanted to further develop on this.

    I've been a HR assistant with my current company for 6 years as well as a weekend receptionist at a car dealership for 6 years. I can see and understand that both companies have very different cultures, which I feel I can apply to the L5 qualification. My problem is, I lack the confidence to push myself (jobs etc), but in order to progress, I need to have a little faith in myself hence applying for the L5. Although I'm being pushed to do my L7, I feel that the L5 would ease me gently back in to studying (as it's been 8 years since I did my MSc).

    So, my advice to you is, perhaps study towards the L5 if you want more opportunities. If you have a degree already then you'll be used to assignment writing. The rest will just fall in to place providing you believe in yourself! :) Good luck.
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