How far can one go in HR if you cannot 'do' people management?

This question is in terms of not an unwillingness to do it, but you either can't get such a role or more to the point, you essentially lack the right type of personality, personal qualities, people, soft skills and other emotional subtleties and social nuances to take and deal with employees in the right way.

Similarly, certain skills you are either born with and hence have or not, and although one can be taught certain learned behaviours, you also can’t spend a lifetime trying to learn skills which just don’t come, flow naturally, struggle or have difficulties to come out or which you don’t automatically pick up on.

At a certain stage of your career you know that you have what it takes or not. 

Can a career in HR academia and research offer a way out?

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  • Hi Andre, you do have quite a few posts along a similar line now. i did reply with a suggestion about academia or research in one of your previous threads which I'm not sure if you saw. I have copied and pasted it below in case you missed it:-

    "Andre, i think you asked a very similar question recently and received a lot of advice at the time.

    I didn't contribute at the time as you were getting some very good advice, but it is clear that you are very frustrated at your lack of progression.

    If i recall correctly you have a neurodiverse condition which means that you sometimes have difficulty in picking up on social cues when communicating. As you progress up the HR ladder, the ability to pick up on social cues and small clues about people's emotions becomes more important. This can be when dealing with employee relations issues, such as disciplinary or grievance issues, interviewing, negotiating with Trade Unions, or coaching and mentoring managers through difficult situations.

    It may therefore be that it is this that is holding you back from progressing up the 'traditional' HR route. People may have been unwilling to give you feedback along these lines, due to a fear of being seen as discriminating (I mean Andre's employers or potential employers rather than anyone on here by the way), however that is not helpful to you and there are a number of areas of HR where neurodiversity would be a considerable strength (HR Analytics for example).

    I have previously worked in a research institute and a large proportion of scientists are neurodiverse. Within scientific research, you are often working on your own and need to be able to adopt a highly focused and methodical approach to the research you are carrying out- often repeating small actions continually, making only tiny changes each time. . People who are not neurodiverse can often find that quite difficult in the same way that you find reading social cues difficult. It is all about playing to our individual strengths

    If you want to stay in HR practice, the growing area of HR Data and Analytics is an area where your strengths would be highly useful. Reward and benefits is another area that involves a considerable amount of research and methodical thinking to develop solutions.

    However, as I remember from your previous post, you are also very academically gifted so you could consider moving into academia -- for example, carrying out research into people/organisational psychology. As an idea of the types of HR related research jobs this route could lead to, my local University is currently advertising for a Senior Research Associate to carry out a research project that " seeks to identify which combinations of workplace health and wellbeing practices reliably improve worker health, wellbeing, engagement and performance"

    I hope this is useful and you are able to find a route that you find fulfilling"
  • Hi Teresa,

    Many thanks for your reply.

    If however I wanted to continue on the traditional pathway in HR, could one effective method just be to inform the meeting in advance by saying that I have very mild AS so don't automatically or always pick up so well on the so called unwritten rules of social communication and social interaction that non neurodiverse people may do. So, if my style comes across as a bit different, they know and understand it well.

    It's more a difference in approach and style to the world than anything else.

    Kind regards

    Andre.

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  • Hi Teresa,

    Many thanks for your reply.

    If however I wanted to continue on the traditional pathway in HR, could one effective method just be to inform the meeting in advance by saying that I have very mild AS so don't automatically or always pick up so well on the so called unwritten rules of social communication and social interaction that non neurodiverse people may do. So, if my style comes across as a bit different, they know and understand it well.

    It's more a difference in approach and style to the world than anything else.

    Kind regards

    Andre.

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