Team building challenge

Hi All,

I'm looking for advice on how to approach (and whether it is even appropriate) team building with a team of about 10 who have worked together for years but do not get along.  Two members of the team in particular do not get on (understatement- they have taken out grievances against each other and will not speak at all).  They have had 8 managers in 2 years. The current manager needs to make changes to the way the team operates and would like their input in a series of half day sessions but also wants to do some team building.  I am at a loss on what type of team building activity to do with a team like this.  Any suggestions?

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  • Hi Sandra

    Team building is appropriate when people need to get to know each other better and build a working relationship. That's not what you're dealing with here. If you try any kind of team building activity with these two people present, they are just going to bring all their resentment with them.

    If their grievances have been heard, then they need to be told that those matters are closed and they must interact professionally with each other or disciplinary action will follow. The new manager needs to deliver this message before any attempt at the 1/2 day sessions. I've made it sound very hard line, but having a new person in post is an opportunity for someone without baggage to talk to them and talk about how they want things to be, the values they want to see team members living up to - it will depend on the way the new manager feels comfortable delivering the message but a line needs to be drawn and they both move on or face the consequences.

    I suspect that as manager has followed manager (what's going on there? 8 in 2 years???) there have been no consequences to their refusal to speak to each other. The new manager can start on a positive, but make it clear that this stops now.
  • Hi Sandra,

    I fully agree with Elizabeth's approach above.

    I would also add that it will be clearer for you what to do if you either talk to those 10 people or make a short survey on what their needs and expectations are from the new manager and you can start building from there. On the other hand, those people will automatically realize you care about them and you hear them.
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  • Hi Sandra,

    I fully agree with Elizabeth's approach above.

    I would also add that it will be clearer for you what to do if you either talk to those 10 people or make a short survey on what their needs and expectations are from the new manager and you can start building from there. On the other hand, those people will automatically realize you care about them and you hear them.
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